Dating in the trans world can be hard. Feel free to submit confessions, stories, pictures etc.

 

I realize there is something wrong in the last sentence of my response but I’m inclined to stand by it.

I realize there is something wrong in the last sentence of my response but I’m inclined to stand by it.

The only time I check my evow account is when POF tells me I have new messages. Usually they’re just those stock ones people can send. 
When I get prying questions like this without any introduction or small talk, I get just a tad defensive. I probably (read: obviously) could have answered this without the sarcasm but this was already going nowhere.

The only time I check my evow account is when POF tells me I have new messages. Usually they’re just those stock ones people can send. 

When I get prying questions like this without any introduction or small talk, I get just a tad defensive. I probably (read: obviously) could have answered this without the sarcasm but this was already going nowhere.

fromonesurvivortoanother:

it is not “impolite” to call someone cissexist/transphobic when they are, in fact, being cissexist/transphobic. 

someone calling out your shit is not inherently rude

to insist that people who have been deeply hurt by your words bury their anger is insulting

and to suggest that they are being oversensitive or hurting themselves for having perfectly valid concerns is patronizing and demeaning 

I haven’t really been checking my OKCupid lately but today I logged in and had 47 messages and most of them were pretty lame but I got a GEM from my sister’s ex boyfriend who doesn’t realize it’s me and another gem from my cousin who, apparently, doesn’t remember seeing me at my dads service and doesn’t realize it’s me either.

And if he does… well let’s just not entertain that thought…

Yes, strange man, I would love to lend you my couch for a few weeks. Would you also like to make off with my television, computers, phones or other devices you might be able to sell?

Yes, strange man, I would love to lend you my couch for a few weeks. Would you also like to make off with my television, computers, phones or other devices you might be able to sell?