Dating in the trans world can be hard. Feel free to submit confessions, stories, pictures etc.
it is not “impolite” to call someone cissexist/transphobic when they are, in fact, being cissexist/transphobic.
someone calling out your shit is not inherently rude
to insist that people who have been deeply hurt by your words bury their anger is insulting
and to suggest that they are being oversensitive or hurting themselves for having perfectly valid concerns is patronizing and demeaning
I haven’t really been checking my OKCupid lately but today I logged in and had 47 messages and most of them were pretty lame but I got a GEM from my sister’s ex boyfriend who doesn’t realize it’s me and another gem from my cousin who, apparently, doesn’t remember seeing me at my dads service and doesn’t realize it’s me either.
And if he does… well let’s just not entertain that thought…